Aversion Quote by Honore de Balzac
“Man can start with aversion and end with love, but if he begins with love and comes round to aversion he will never get back to love.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Le Père Goriot by Honoré de Balzac, 1835
The path of emotions matters; starting with dislike can transform into love, but starting with love and turning to dislike prevents returning to love.
In simple terms: Starting with dislike can become love; starting with love and turning to dislike blocks love.
Key Takeaway
Guard your initial emotional stance.
Themes
emotions
transformation
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
attachment theory
emotional cycles
Questions to Reflect On
- How do your first feelings shape long‑term connections?
- Can you recover love after choosing aversion?
A Different Perspective
If love is lost, it may be hard to regain, especially after deliberate aversion.
