Children Quote by Henrik Ibsen
““HELMER:—To forsake your home, your husband, and your children! You don’t consider what the world will say. NORA:—I can pay no heed to that. I only know what I must do. HELMER:—It is exasperating! Can you forsake your holiest duties in this world? NORA:—What do you call my holiest duties? HELMER:—Do you ask me that? Your duties to your husband and your children. NORA:—I have other duties equally sacred. HELMER:—Impossible! What duties do you mean? NORA:—My duties towards myself. HELMER:—Before all else you are a wife and a mother. NORA:—That I no longer believe. I think that before all else I am a human being, just as much as you are—or at least I will try to become one.””
About This Quote
Source Play: A Doll's House, 1879
A woman asserts her right to self‑definition over imposed domestic roles, challenging patriarchal expectations.
In simple terms: A woman chooses herself over family duties.
Prioritize personal identity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- career decisions
- personal growth
- ethical debates
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What personal values justify redefining traditional roles?
- How can one balance self‑care with family obligations?
May overlook responsibilities to dependents.