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Children Quote by Henrik Ibsen

“HELMER:—To forsake your home, your husband, and your children! You don’t consider what the world will say. NORA:—I can pay no heed to that. I only know what I must do. HELMER:—It is exasperating! Can you forsake your holiest duties in this world? NORA:—What do you call my holiest duties?…” quote by Henrik Ibsen
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““HELMER:—To forsake your home, your husband, and your children! You don’t consider what the world will say. NORA:—I can pay no heed to that. I only know what I must do. HELMER:—It is exasperating! Can you forsake your holiest duties in this world? NORA:—What do you call my holiest duties? HELMER:—Do you ask me that? Your duties to your husband and your children. NORA:—I have other duties equally sacred. HELMER:—Impossible! What duties do you mean? NORA:—My duties towards myself. HELMER:—Before all else you are a wife and a mother. NORA:—That I no longer believe. I think that before all else I am a human being, just as much as you are—or at least I will try to become one.””

Henrik Ibsen

About This Quote

Source Play: A Doll's House, 1879

A woman asserts her right to self‑definition over imposed domestic roles, challenging patriarchal expectations.

In simple terms: A woman chooses herself over family duties.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize personal identity.

Themes

identity gender individualism family society

Mood

defiant reflective

Type

dramatic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • career decisions
  • personal growth
  • ethical debates

Key Concepts

feminism existentialism autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal values justify redefining traditional roles?
  • How can one balance self‑care with family obligations?
A Different Perspective

May overlook responsibilities to dependents.

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