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Friend Quote by Haruki Murakami

“Ordinary imperfect people, always choose similarly imperfect people as friends.” quote by Haruki Murakami
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“Ordinary imperfect people, always choose similarly imperfect people as friends.”

Haruki Murakami

About This Quote

Source Novel: Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami, 1987

People tend to form friendships with others who share similar flaws and vulnerabilities.

In simple terms: We pick friends who are like us in imperfection.

Key Takeaway

Accept imperfect friendships.

Themes

friendship human nature compatibility

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

observational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • college life
  • workplace
  • online communities
  • support groups

Key Concepts

psychology social bonding

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you seek similarity or growth in friends?
  • How do shared flaws affect trust?
A Different Perspective

Friends may reinforce negative habits.

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