“Dear sisters do you know who is the true and faithful lover?True lover is not the man who makes you live a forbidden love story like the one presented in movies or described in songs.True lover would offer you a blessed love and a blessed love would never grow under Allahs anger no matter what. True love is selfless. It comes with sacrifices. Sacrifice something forbidden (extra marital relationship) to please Allah and to save the one you love from the fire of hell. A true lover would do his best to give you jannah, by asking your hand in marriage, not encouraging you to disobey Allah ta'ala and hide behind your family's back. That man would certainly not allow another man to treat his mother or daughter the same way, therefore, raise your personal standards sister. You have rights and deserve to be treated in an honorable manner. If he truly wants to marry you, he will talk to your parents. Your dignity is priceless my dear sister, settle for excellence in the obedience of Allah”
