Common Quote by Gustave Flaubert
“Everyone, either from modesty or egotism, hides away the best and most delicate of his soul’s possessions; to gain the esteem of others, we must only ever show our ugliest sides; this is how we keep ourselves on the common level”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Sentimental Education, 1869
People hide their finest qualities to appear humble or boastful, showing only flaws to gain others’ respect, keeping themselves ordinary.
In simple terms: We conceal our best selves, showing only flaws to fit in.
Key Takeaway
Embrace authenticity over conformity.
Themes
humility
ego
self‑presentation
social conformity
authenticity
Mood
introspective
critical
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- online profiles
- job interviews
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology of self‑image
social dynamics
personal integrity
Questions to Reflect On
- What parts of yourself do you hide?
- How can you safely reveal your strengths?
A Different Perspective
Fear of judgment may prevent genuine expression.
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