Baby Quote by Gurinder Chadha
“When you have a baby you start thinking of death cuz' you see the opposite of life. I've calmed down now but for the first or two years, I kept thinking: "Oh my God, if I die what's going to happen to the child?" And you realise how vulnerable they are, but how critical your own life is because they're so dependent on you. You do feel your own mortality. I kept saying to myself: "OK, when they're 18, I'll be 'x'; so if they get married at 30, I'll be'x'will I get to see grandchildren?" So, since they've been born I've been thinking about death the whole time.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Documentary on parenting, 2018
Parenthood makes mortality vivid, prompting existential reflection and future‑oriented thinking.
In simple terms: Having kids heightens awareness of death.
Key Takeaway
Use this awareness to cherish life.
Themes
mortality
parenthood
legacy
vulnerability
Mood
thoughtful
introspective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- new parents
- grief counseling
- life planning
Key Concepts
existential awareness
intergenerational responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- How does thinking of death affect your daily choices?
- What legacy do you wish to leave?
A Different Perspective
Focusing on death may cause anxiety.
