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Mind and body Quote by Graham Greene

“The hurt is in the act of possession: we are too small in mind and body to possess another person without pride or to be possessed without humiliation.” quote by Graham Greene
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““The hurt is in the act of possession: we are too small in mind and body to possess another person without pride or to be possessed without humiliation.””

Graham Greene

About This Quote

Source Novel: The End of the Affair, Graham Greene, 1951

Possession creates power imbalances, leading to pride in the possessor and humiliation in the possessed.

In simple terms: Owning others breeds pride and shame.

Key Takeaway

Respect autonomy, avoid ownership mind.

Themes

power pride humiliation relationships

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace dynamics
  • family ties
  • friendships

Key Concepts

psychology ethics identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your need for control affect others?
  • Can mutual respect replace possessive instincts?
A Different Perspective

Possession can be consensual and empowering, not always degrading.

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