Denying self Quote by Gerald G. May
““I think the greater danger is that those who think they understand the process [of overcoming our attachments] are likely to try to make it happen on their own by engaging in false austerities and love-denying self-deprivations. They will not wait for God's timing; they will rush ahead of grace. I have seen it happen when ascetic practices have become overinstitutionalized, and I have engaged in it myself when I thought I could engineer my own salvation. It does not work.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Spiritual Crisis and Healing, 1995
Attempting self‑salvation through forced austerity ignores divine timing and leads to false spiritual practices.
In simple terms: Rushing spiritual growth without grace fails.
Trust divine timing, avoid forced austerities.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal prayer
- spiritual retreats
- counseling
- community worship
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize when you are forcing spiritual progress?
- What role does grace play in your personal growth?
True transformation often requires patience and humility.