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Compassion Quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky

“Nastasha Filippovna,' said Myshkin softly and as it were with compassion, 'I told you just now that I would take your consent as an honor, and that you are doing me an honor, not I you. You smiled at those words, and I heard people laughing about us. I may have expressed myself very absurdly and…” quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
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““Nastasha Filippovna,' said Myshkin softly and as it were with compassion, 'I told you just now that I would take your consent as an honor, and that you are doing me an honor, not I you. You smiled at those words, and I heard people laughing about us. I may have expressed myself very absurdly and have been absurd myself, but I thought all the time that I... understood the meaning of honor, and I am sure I spoke the truth. You wanted to ruin yourself just now irrevocably; for you'd never have forgiven yourself for it afterwards. But you are not to blame for anything. Your life cannot be altogether ruined. What does it matter that Rogozhin did come to you and Gavril Ardalionovitch tried to deceive you? Why will you go on dwelling on it? Few people would do what you have done, I tell you that again. As for your meaning to go with Rogozhin, you were ill when you meant to do it. You are ill now, and you had much better go to bed. You would have gone off to be a washerwoman next day; you wouldn't have stayed with Rogozhin. You are proud, Nastasha Filippovna; but perhaps you are so unhappy as really to think yourself to blame. You want a lot of looking after, Nastasha Filippovna. I will look after you. I saw your portrait this morning and I felt as though I recognized a face that I knew. I felt as though you had called to me already... I shall respect you all my life Nastasha Filippovna.””

Fyodor Dostoyevsky

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Idiot by Fyodor Dostoyevsky, 1869

Myshkin expresses compassionate concern, urging Nastasha to accept care and reject self‑destruction, emphasizing honor lies in mutual respect rather than blame.

In simple terms: Compassionate care over self‑blame.

Key Takeaway

Offer support, avoid self‑destructive choices.

Themes

compassion honor self‑blame mental health relationships

Mood

empathetic reflective serious

Type

literary philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • friendship crises
  • family disputes
  • personal recovery
  • mental health interventions

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology ethical duty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can compassion be balanced with respecting autonomy?
  • When does offering help become control?
A Different Perspective

Myshkin’s idealism may overlook Nastasha’s agency and the complexity of her situation.

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