Children Quote by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
““Do you suppose, gentlemen, that our children as they grow up and begin to reason can avoid such questions? No, they cannot, and we will not impose on them an impossible restriction. The sight of an unworthy father involuntarily suggests tormenting questions to a young creature, especially when he compares him with the excellent fathers of his companions. The conventional answer to this question is: 'He begot you, and you are his flesh and blood, and therefore you are bound to love him.' The youth involuntarily reflects: 'But did he love me when he begot me?' he asks, wondering more and more. 'Was it for my sake he begot me? He did not know me, not even my sex, at that moment, at the moment of passion, perhaps, inflamed by wine, and he has only transmitted to me a propensity to drunkenness- that's all he's done for me… Why am I bound to love him simply for begetting me when he has cared nothing for me all my life after? Oh, perhaps those questions strike you as coarse and cruel, but do not expect an impossible restraint from a young mind. 'Drive nature out of the door and it will fly in at the window'.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Brothers Karamazov, 1880
A child questions the moral duty to love a father who may have been indifferent or harmful, exposing the tension between biological ties and emotional truth.
In simple terms: Children wonder why they must love a parent who didn't love them.
Recognize love should be earned, not forced.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- ethical debates
- personal growth
- literary analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you love anyone because of blood alone?
- How do you reconcile duty with personal feelings?
Love based solely on blood can be hollow and harmful.