Cry Quote by Fuyumi Ono
“And that's when I realized that there's really two ways people cry. You cry when you're sorry for yourself, and then you cry when you are really sad. The tears you cry for yourself? Those are kid tears. You're crying because you want somebody to help you or pick you up. Your mom, your dad, the old lady next door... anyone.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Shiki, 2000
People cry for self‑pity or genuine sorrow; the former is self‑focused, the latter seeks support.
In simple terms: Two kinds of tears: selfish and sincere.
Key Takeaway
Seek authentic connection.
Themes
emotions
crying
self‑pity
support
family
Mood
empathetic
introspective
Type
psychological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- friendship
- parental guidance
- mental health support
Key Concepts
psychology
emotional intelligence
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your tears?
- How can you distinguish self‑pity from true sadness?
A Different Perspective
Self‑pity can hinder growth; vulnerability may be misread.
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