Being nice Quote by Frederick Lenz
“If you suspect someone is draining you, generally you should not confront them, but be nice, relax them, and then see what they are doing.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Spiritual Guidance Session, 2002
When sensing someone draining you, avoid direct confrontation; instead, gently relax them and observe their behavior.
In simple terms: Avoid confrontation, be gentle, and watch their actions.
Use calm observation to address draining relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace dynamics
- personal relationships
- self‑care practices
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you set firm boundaries without confrontation?
- When is direct confrontation necessary?
Gentle approach may enable continued draining.