Habits Quote by Franklin Veaux
““when you seek to reduce risk by imposing constraints on other people's behavior, you transfer that risk onto others. By doing this you say, "I want to explore polyamory but I don't want to take this risk, so I will transfer it onto any new partners, by asking them to be open and vulnerable while also limiting how much they are allowed to advocate for their own needs.””
About This Quote
Imposing constraints to avoid personal risk shifts that risk onto others, creating ethical dilemmas.
In simple terms: Avoiding risk by controlling others harms them.
Key Takeaway
Consider fairness before setting constraints.
Themes
ethics
risk management
relationships
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
philosophical
advisory
When to use this quote
- polyamory
- negotiations
- contractual agreements
Key Concepts
power dynamics
consent
responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- Is risk transfer ever justified?
- How to balance safety and freedom?
A Different Perspective
Constraints can erode trust and autonomy.
