Honest Quote by F. Sionil José
“Sometimes we have to lie so that we do not needlessly hurt others. The important thing is that we are honest with ourselves. That we know how to bend without breaking ourselves. -Crepusculo Lepidoptera”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Po-on by F. Sionil José, 1966
Balancing honesty with compassion sometimes requires gentle deception to protect others while staying true to oneself.
In simple terms: Sometimes we must lie to avoid hurting others, yet stay honest inside.
Key Takeaway
Protect others gently, stay self‑honest.
Themes
ethics
self‑care
communication
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- counseling
Key Concepts
moral compromise
self‑integrity
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it acceptable to protect a truth?
- How can you maintain integrity while protecting feelings?
A Different Perspective
Such lies can erode trust if overused.
