Accidents Quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald
“You're a rotten driver,' I protested. 'Either you ought to be more careful or you oughtn't to drive at all.' 'I am careful.' 'No, you're not.' 'Well, other people are,' she said lightly. 'What's that got to do with it?' 'They'll keep out of my way,' she insisted. 'It takes two to make an accident.' 'Suppose you met somebody just as careless as yourself.' 'I hope I never will,' she answered. 'I hate careless people. That's why I like you.' Her grey, sun-strained eyes stared straight ahead, but she had deliberately shifted our relations, and for a moment I thought I loved her.”
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Great Gatsby” (excerpt), 1925
A dialogue reveals how mutual blame and self‑justification mask deeper attraction and vulnerability in relationships.
In simple terms: People argue but hide affection.
Key Takeaway
Acknowledge and discuss underlying feelings.
Themes
relationships
communication
self‑deception
vulnerability
psychology
Mood
reflective
intimate
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- conflict resolution
- self‑reflection
- relationship building
Key Concepts
projection
defensive behavior
emotional intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- What are you really feeling?
- How does blame affect intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Denial can prevent genuine connection.
