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Love Quote by Erich Fromm

“The assumption that the problem of love is the problem of an object , not the problem of a faculty . People think that to love is simple, but that to find the right object to love - or to be loved by- is difficult.” quote by Erich Fromm
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““The assumption that the problem of love is the problem of an object , not the problem of a faculty . People think that to love is simple, but that to find the right object to love - or to be loved by- is difficult.””

Erich Fromm

About This Quote

Love is often mistaken as a simple act of finding the right object, while it is actually a complex faculty that involves personal growth and relational skill.

In simple terms: Love is a skill, not just finding the right person.

Key Takeaway

Love is a relational capability.

Themes

love psychology self-development

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

attachment theory

Practical Applications

  • Practice empathy and self-awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What habits develop love as a faculty?
  • How does self‑knowledge affect love?
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