Accidents Quote by Epictetus
“Everything has two handles; the one soft and manageable, the other such as will not endure to be touched. If then your brother do you an injury, do not take it by the hot hard handle, by representing to yourself all the aggravating circumstances of the fact; but look rather on the soft side, and extenuate it as much as is possible, by considering the nearness of the relation, and the long friendship and familiarity between you--obligations to kindness which a single provocation ought not to dissolve. And thus you will take the accident by its manageable handle.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Enchiridion, c. 108 AD
Handle conflicts gently by focusing on relationships and kindness rather than reacting harshly.
In simple terms: Choose compassion over retaliation.
Key Takeaway
Respond with empathy, not anger.
Themes
philosophy
ethics
relationships
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal disputes
- family disagreements
- workplace tension
Key Concepts
Stoic practice
emotional regulation
conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you apply gentle handling in daily conflicts?
- What benefits arise from emphasizing kindness?
A Different Perspective
Hard responses can damage bonds.
