Believe Quote by Emily Post
“The only occasion when the traditions of courtesy permit a hostess to help herself before a woman guest is when she has reason to believe the food is poisoned.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics by Emily Post, 1922
Courtesy allows a hostess to protect herself only when she suspects danger, highlighting trust issues in hospitality.
In simple terms: Hosts may act selfishly if they fear harm.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize safety over politeness when needed.
Themes
trust
hospitality
self‑preservation
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- dinner parties
- business meetings
- cultural events
Key Concepts
social norms
risk assessment
Questions to Reflect On
- When should you balance courtesy with self‑care?
- How can you signal concerns without breaking etiquette?
A Different Perspective
Assuming malicious intent can damage relationships.
