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“I nod, thinking of how difficult marriage can be, how much effort is required to sustain a feeling between two people - a feeling that you can't imagine will ever fade in the beginning when everything comes so easily. I think of how each person in a marriage owes it to the other to find individual…” quote by Emily Giffin
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“I nod, thinking of how difficult marriage can be, how much effort is required to sustain a feeling between two people - a feeling that you can't imagine will ever fade in the beginning when everything comes so easily. I think of how each person in a marriage owes it to the other to find individual happiness, even in a shared life. That is the only real way to grow together, instead of apart.”

Emily Giffin

About This Quote

Source Novel: Something Borrowed, Emily Giffin, 2005

Marriage requires ongoing effort and mutual support, while each partner also seeks personal fulfillment to grow together.

In simple terms: Marriage needs work and personal happiness.

Key Takeaway

Balance shared life with individual joy.

Themes

relationships growth commitment

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • couples counseling
  • daily appreciation
  • shared goals
  • personal hobbies

Key Concepts

mutual support personal fulfillment

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you nurture your own happiness while supporting your spouse?
  • What small actions reinforce mutual growth?
A Different Perspective

Neglecting personal needs can erode the partnership.

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