Art Quote by Elizabeth Lesser
“There is an art to grieving. To grieve well the loss of anyone or anything--a parent, a love, a child, an era, a home, a job--is a creative act. It takes attention and patience and courage. But many of us do not know how to grieve. We were never taught, and we don't see examples of full-bodied grieving around us. Our culture favors the fast-food model of mourning--get over it quick and get back to work; affix the bandage of "closure" and move on.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Grieving (essay collection) by Elizabeth Lesser, 2015
Grieving is a creative, intentional process requiring patience and courage, yet modern culture often pushes quick, superficial coping.
In simple terms: Grief needs time, attention, and courage, not shortcuts.
Allow yourself space and practice to grieve fully.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- loss of a loved one
- end of a relationship
- job loss
- community mourning
- personal trauma
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does grieving look like for you?
- How can you support others in deep mourning?
Fast‑food mourning can prevent true healing.