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Love Quote by Elizabeth Goudge

“I had not known before that love is obedience. You want to love, and you can’t, and you hate yourself because you can’t, and all the time love is not some marvelous thing that you feel but some hard thing that you do. And this in a way is easier because with God’s help you can command your will…” quote by Elizabeth Goudge
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““I had not known before that love is obedience. You want to love, and you can’t, and you hate yourself because you can’t, and all the time love is not some marvelous thing that you feel but some hard thing that you do. And this in a way is easier because with God’s help you can command your will when you can’t command your feelings. With us, feelings seem to be important, but He doesn’t appear to agree with us.””

Elizabeth Goudge

About This Quote

Source Novel: "The Little White Horse", 1929

Love is an active obedience, not just feeling; divine help lets will guide actions when emotions falter.

In simple terms: Love is doing, not just feeling.

Key Takeaway

Align actions with love, seek spiritual support.

Themes

love obedience spirituality willpower

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

philosophical spiritual

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • parenting
  • community service
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

emotions divine aid self‑discipline

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you act lovingly when you feel otherwise?
  • What role does faith play in your actions?
A Different Perspective

Emotions can conflict with moral duties.

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