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Death Quote by Elizabeth Berg

“The summer I was ten years old, there was a group of kids in my neighborhood who played together every night after dinner. I often watched them from my window…Every night around nine-thirty or ten, those kids would get called in one by one…I knew the first ones called were full of resentment. But…” quote by Elizabeth Berg
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““The summer I was ten years old, there was a group of kids in my neighborhood who played together every night after dinner. I often watched them from my window…Every night around nine-thirty or ten, those kids would get called in one by one…I knew the first ones called were full of resentment. But they needn’t have been. Nothing ever happened after they left anyway. Things just sort of ended in a slow motion way, like petals falling off a flower. You couldn’t have people leave like that and have anything good happen afterward. Whoever was left couldn’t pay much attention to anything other than waiting for their turn to get called in. So, it wasn’t so bad to go first, to head back toward those deep yellow lights and beds made up with summer linens. It was much better than being last, when you would be left standing there alone, finally going in without anybody calling you.””

Elizabeth Berg

About This Quote

Source Short story: Personal recollection, published in a literary magazine

A child reflects on the fear of being the last to be called, finding comfort in being first and the warmth of communal rituals.

In simple terms: Being first feels safer than being left alone.

Key Takeaway

Embrace early participation.

Themes

childhood fear community ritual acceptance

Mood

nostalgic reflective

Type

narrative personal

When to use this quote

  • schoolyard
  • family gatherings
  • group activities
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics memory

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does being first mean to you?
  • How do you cope with waiting?
A Different Perspective

Being last can also bring unexpected growth.

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