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“The paradox of love is that to have it is to want to preserve it because it's perfect in the moment but that preservation is impossible because the perfection is only ever an instant passed through. Love like travel is a series of moments that we immediately leave behind. Still we try to hold on…” quote by Elisabeth Eaves
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“The paradox of love is that to have it is to want to preserve it because it's perfect in the moment but that preservation is impossible because the perfection is only ever an instant passed through. Love like travel is a series of moments that we immediately leave behind. Still we try to hold on and embalm against all evidence and common sense proclaiming our promises and plans. The more I loved him the more I felt hope. But hope acknowledges uncertainty and so I also felt my first premonitions of loss.”

Elisabeth Eaves

About This Quote

Source Essay: Love and Impermanence, Elisabeth Eaves, 2015

Love is fleeting; we try to freeze perfect moments, but perfection exists only briefly, making preservation impossible.

In simple terms: Love is brief and cannot be kept forever.

Key Takeaway

Accept love’s transience and cherish moments as they happen.

Themes

love impermanence hope loss memory

Mood

bitanchored reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical poetic

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • personal reflection
  • grief counseling
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology romanticism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you honor love without clinging?
  • What does it mean to love fully despite inevitable loss?
A Different Perspective

Attempting to hold love can lead to disappointment and stunted growth.

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