Death Quote by Edna St. Vincent Millay
““ Dirge Without Music I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground. So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind: Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely. Crowned With lilies and with laurel they go; but I am not resigned. Lovers and thinkers, into the earth with you. Be one with the dull, the indiscriminate dust. A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew, A formula, a phrase remains,—but the best is lost. The answers quick and keen, the honest look, the laughter, the love,— They are gone. They are gone to feed the roses. Elegant and curled Is the blossom. Fragrant is the blossom. I know. But I do not approve. More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world. Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind; Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave. I know. But I do not approve. And I am not resigned.””
About This Quote
Source Poem: “Dirge Without Music” (published in 1920)
The speaker mourns the loss of love, wisdom, and joy, refusing to accept death’s finality and the erasure of what once mattered.
In simple terms: Grief over death and loss, unwillingness to accept it.
Embrace life’s fleeting beauty, resist resignation.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- funeral rites
- personal reflection
- artistic expression
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to truly mourn?
- How can we honor lost love while living?