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Happiness Quote by E.M. Forster

“Petty unselfishness,” she repeated. “I had got an idea that every one here spent their lives in making little sacrifices for objects they didn’t care for, to please people they didn’t love; that they never learnt to be sincere—and, what’s as bad, never learnt how to enjoy themselves.” quote by E.M. Forster
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““Petty unselfishness,” she repeated. “I had got an idea that every one here spent their lives in making little sacrifices for objects they didn’t care for, to please people they didn’t love; that they never learnt to be sincere—and, what’s as bad, never learnt how to enjoy themselves.””

E.M. Forster

About This Quote

Source Novel: A Passage to India, 1924

People often sacrifice personal joy for external expectations, losing authenticity and self‑enjoyment.

In simple terms: People give up happiness for others' approval.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine enjoyment over empty sacrifices.

Themes

authenticity self‑care social pressure sincerity

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • personal relationships
  • creative pursuits

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology literary critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • What sacrifices are you making for others?
  • How can you reclaim personal joy?
A Different Perspective

Balancing duty with personal joy can be complex.

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