Accidents Quote by Dennis Lehane
“Your first family is your blood family and you always be true to that. That means something. But there's another family and that's the kind you go out and find. Maybe even by accident sometimes. And they're as much blood as your first family. Maybe more so, because they don't have to look out for you and they don't have to love you. They choose to.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: A Drink Before the War by Dennis Lehane, 1994
True family bonds are formed by blood, but chosen families—friends or mentors—can be equally or more supportive because they are chosen, not obligated.
In simple terms: Chosen families can be as strong as blood families.
Key Takeaway
Value and nurture chosen relationships.
Themes
family
friendship
belonging
choice
support
Mood
reflective
affirmative
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- Finding mentors
- building close friendships
- support groups
- team building
Key Concepts
Social bonds
chosen kinship
voluntary commitment
Questions to Reflect On
- Who are the people you choose to call family?
- How do chosen bonds differ from blood ties?
A Different Perspective
Chosen families may lack legal rights or societal recognition.
