Able Quote by Deborra-Lee Furness
“As adult women, we're better able to protect ourselves emotionally. We understand we don't need to spend time with people who don't make us feel good. We recognise that some people have bad energy and we know we don't want that in our lives. Instead, we choose to spend time with people who love us and treat us well and make us happy. There's no doubt that shows on your face.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Oprah Winfrey Show, 2010
Emotional self‑protection involves choosing supportive relationships and avoiding toxic ones, leading to visible happiness.
In simple terms: Choose loving people, avoid bad energy.
Surround yourself with positive influences.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship choices
- dating
- workplace dynamics
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize negative energy?
- What steps help set healthy boundaries?
Hard to identify subtle toxicity.