Being nice Quote by David Nicholls
“You know what i can't understand? You have all these people telling you all the time how great you are, smart and funny and talented and all that, i mean endlessly, i've been telling you for years. So why don't you believe it? why do you think people say that stuff, Em? Do you think it's a conspiracy, people secretly ganging up to be nice about you?”
About This Quote
Source Film: Love, Actually, 2003
Self‑doubt persists despite constant positive feedback, leading to questioning others’ motives.
In simple terms: People doubt themselves even when praised.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and accept genuine compliments.
Themes
self‑esteem
confidence
perception
social validation
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
motivational
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- therapy sessions
- team meetings
- social media
- mentoring
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
impostor syndrome
affirmation
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you truly trust the source of praise?
- How can you internalize positive feedback?
A Different Perspective
Compliments may be insincere or misunderstood, limiting their impact.
