Calm mind Quote by David Mitchell
““But love’s not just the drug; it’s also the dealer. Love wants love in return, am I right, Olly? Like drugs, the highs look divine, and I envy the users. But when the side effects kick in—jealousy, the rages, grief, I think, Count me out. Elizabethans equated romantic love with insanity. Buddhists view it as a brat throwing a tantrum at the picnic of the calm mind.””
About This Quote
Love is likened to a drug that offers both pleasure and harmful side effects, creating a dependency that can become destructive.
In simple terms: Love can feel addictive and cause pain.
Beware love’s intoxicating grip.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic longing
- personal reflection
- mental health
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- relationship counseling
- self‑care
- mindful dating
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance desire with self‑preservation?
- What signs show love is becoming toxic?
Love can be as harmful as it is rewarding.