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Calm mind Quote by David Mitchell

“But love’s not just the drug; it’s also the dealer. Love wants love in return, am I right, Olly? Like drugs, the highs look divine, and I envy the users. But when the side effects kick in—jealousy, the rages, grief, I think, Count me out. Elizabethans equated romantic love with insanity. Buddhists…” quote by David Mitchell
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““But love’s not just the drug; it’s also the dealer. Love wants love in return, am I right, Olly? Like drugs, the highs look divine, and I envy the users. But when the side effects kick in—jealousy, the rages, grief, I think, Count me out. Elizabethans equated romantic love with insanity. Buddhists view it as a brat throwing a tantrum at the picnic of the calm mind.””

David Mitchell

About This Quote

Love is likened to a drug that offers both pleasure and harmful side effects, creating a dependency that can become destructive.

In simple terms: Love can feel addictive and cause pain.

Key Takeaway

Beware love’s intoxicating grip.

Themes

love addiction emotions relationships psychology

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

philosophical warning

When to use this quote

  • romantic longing
  • personal reflection
  • mental health

Key Concepts

dependency intoxication jealousy grief

Practical Applications

  • relationship counseling
  • self‑care
  • mindful dating

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance desire with self‑preservation?
  • What signs show love is becoming toxic?
A Different Perspective

Love can be as harmful as it is rewarding.

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