Composure Quote by David Levithan
““ composure , n . You told me anyway, even though I didn’t want to know. A stupid drunken fling while you were visiting Toby in Austin. Months ago. And the thing I hate the most is knowing how much hinges on my reaction, how your unburdening can only lead to me being burdened. If I lose it now, I will lose you, too. I know that. I hate it. You wait for my response.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “Every Day” by David Levithan, 2012
The speaker fears losing control and the relationship, recognizing that their reaction determines outcomes and burdens.
In simple terms: Fear of losing control and relationship
Maintain composure to protect relationship
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- conflict resolution
- relationship counseling
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your loss of composure?
- How can you protect yourself without losing the other?
Emotions may overwhelm rational decisions