““But open secret is a lie we like to tell ourselves. It's a lie we often told ourselves, in sickness and in health. It doesn't work, because if you feel you still have a secret, there is no way to be truly open. In the interest of self-preservation, it is sometimes best to keep something back, keep something hidden. But there usually comes a moment - and Neil is hitting his right now - when you don't want self-preservation to define who you are, or who your family is. Truces may stop the battles, but part of you will always feel like you're at war.””
![“Usually the secrets we keep deep down, ain't meant to hurt other people [...]. Not saying they won't, but not through intentions. Those deep secrets, we hide away because we're afraid what other people might think. How they might judge us, if they knew. And nobody's judgment we scared of more than…” quote by P. Djèlí Clark](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/c34/p-dj-l-clark-171965_judgment_usually-the-secrets-we-keep-deep-down-ai_2916171.jpg)
