Can do Quote by David J. Lieberman
“Consider, for example, lust versus love. When we lust after someone or something, we think in terms of what they (or it) can do for us. When we love, however, our thoughts are immersed in what we can give to someone else. Giving makes us feel good, so we do it happily. But when we lust, we only want to take. When someone we love is in pain, we feel pain. When someone whom we lust is in pain, we only think in terms of what that loss or inconvenience means to us.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Love and Lust, 2015
Love focuses on giving and empathy, while lust centers on self‑interest and taking; the former fosters mutual wellbeing, the latter creates distance.
In simple terms: Love is about giving; lust is about taking.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize giving over taking in relationships.
Themes
love
empathy
self‑interest
Mood
empathetic
introspective
Type
philosophical
relationship advice
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- workplace dynamics
- personal growth
Key Concepts
reciprocity
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you tell if you’re loving or lusting?
- What practices nurture selfless giving?
A Different Perspective
Lust can be confused with deep affection, leading to misaligned expectations.
![“Love is the opposite of [lust]: respecting the other as an end unto himself or herself. When you love someone as an end unto himself, then there is no feeling of hurt; you become enriched through it. Love makes everybody rich.” quote by Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/c29/anonymous-1_ends_love-is-the-opposite-of-lust-respecting_276930.jpg)
