Ads Quote by David Hayden
“You should never write your own resume, personal ad, or obituary. In all three cases it is better to show your humility by letting someone else lie for you.”
About This Quote
Writing personal narratives yourself can appear self‑promoting; letting others craft them shows humility.
In simple terms: Let others write your bio to appear modest.
Key Takeaway
Seek a trusted writer for your résumé or obituary.
Themes
humility
self‑presentation
authenticity
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- job applications
- online dating profiles
- memorials
- personal branding
Key Concepts
ego management
voice
perception
Questions to Reflect On
- Who can best capture your essence?
- Is humility always better than authenticity?
A Different Perspective
May lose personal nuance or control over content.
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