Adults Quote by David Elkind
“Sigmund Freud was once asked to describe the characteristics of maturity, and he replied: lieben un arbeiten ("loving and working"). The mature adult is one who can love and allow himself or herself to be loved and who can work productively, meaningfully, and with satisfaction.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Psychology of Maturity, 1995
Maturity involves both the capacity to love and to work meaningfully, integrating emotional and productive aspects of life.
In simple terms: Mature adults love and work well.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate love and purposeful work.
Themes
maturity
love
work
balance
psychology
Mood
inspirational
reflective
practical
Type
self‑help
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career development
- relationships
- personal development
- volunteering
Key Concepts
emotional intelligence
productivity
meaningfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance love and work?
- What does meaningful work look like for you?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on work can neglect emotional needs.
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