Approach Quote by David A. Bednar
“If a person says or does something that we consider offensive, our first obligation is to refuse to take offense and then communicate privately, honestly, and directly with that individual. Such an approach invites inspiration from the Holy Ghost and permits misperceptions to be clarified and true intent to be understood.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 2018
When offended, first choose not to take offense, then address the issue calmly and directly to foster understanding.
In simple terms: First, don’t take offense; then speak honestly.
Key Takeaway
Practice restraint and open communication.
Themes
communication
conflict resolution
empathy
spirituality
honesty
Mood
thoughtful
calm
respectful
Type
advice
spiritual
When to use this quote
- workplace disagreements
- family disputes
- online interactions
- community meetings
Key Concepts
nonviolent communication
personal growth
faith-based dialogue
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we balance calmness with asserting boundaries?
- When is it appropriate to confront directly?
A Different Perspective
Avoiding offense may suppress legitimate concerns if not balanced with assertiveness.
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