““Sorry. It’s just hard not to think of you as a category, you know? That’s the downside of leadership. You become a symbol. Which is powerful in its own right, but then people stop forgetting you’re a person and have your own needs and wants. It’s going to be hard for you to find the right man, Hera. Don’t settle. Don’t go for the guy that’s impressed with you because of who you are to other people. Go for the guy that’s impressed with who you are to him.””