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Brother Quote by Darinne Paciotti

“If you would talk to her that would be great. I would talk to her myself, but you’re the one whose planet it is, and I wouldn’t want to seem like I was trying to go over your head,” said Pos. “So basically any time you two disagree on things concerning your lands, I have to be the one to step in…” quote by Darinne Paciotti
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““If you would talk to her that would be great. I would talk to her myself, but you’re the one whose planet it is, and I wouldn’t want to seem like I was trying to go over your head,” said Pos. “So basically any time you two disagree on things concerning your lands, I have to be the one to step in and fix it?” I asked, surprised. “Well… yes. That’s your job.” He shrugged sympathetically. I didn’t realize it was my job to listen to what my brother wanted to tell my sister and then go repeat what he told me. I thought we were adults. I did not realize we were playing telephone when it came to important administrative issues affecting an entire f***ing planet.””

Darinne Paciotti

About This Quote

The speaker feels burdened by being the intermediary for planetary decisions, highlighting frustration with indirect communication and unclear responsibilities.

In simple terms: Being forced to relay messages creates frustration and confusion.

Key Takeaway

Clarify roles and improve direct communication.

Themes

communication responsibility frustration bureaucracy

Mood

irritated exasperated

Type

reflective critical

When to use this quote

  • family meetings
  • government negotiations
  • project management
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

intermediary authority planetary governance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we streamline decision‑making without a middleman?
  • What structures prevent clear dialogue?
A Different Perspective

Reliance on a single messenger can cause misinterpretations and delays.

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