Expected Quote by Dan Savage
“Men were never expected to be monogamous.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Ethical Slut, Dan Savage, 1997
Monogamy isn’t a universal expectation for men, reflecting societal norms.
In simple terms: Men aren’t always expected to be monogamous.
Key Takeaway
Question traditional relationship expectations.
Themes
relationships
norms
sexuality
gender
Mood
provocative
thoughtful
open‑minded
Type
ethical
social
relationship
When to use this quote
- dating apps
- marriage counseling
- sexual education
- media representation
Key Concepts
sociology
ethical non‑monogamy
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we assume monogamy?
- What alternatives work for you?
A Different Perspective
Monogamy can still be a healthy choice for many.
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