Conversation Quote by Dallin H. Oaks
“Simple and more frequent dates allow both men and women to ‘shop around’ in a way that allows extensive evaluation of the prospects. The old-fashioned date was a wonderful way to get acquainted with a member of the opposite sex. It encouraged conversation. It allowed you to see how you treat others and how you are treated in a one-on-one situation. It gave opportunities to learn how to initiate and sustain a mature relationship. None of that happens in hanging out”
About This Quote
Source Speech: General Conference, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 2015
Frequent, casual dating lets people assess compatibility before committing, fostering self‑knowledge and relational skills.
In simple terms: Dating often helps people learn about each other.
Key Takeaway
Use varied dating to understand compatibility.
Themes
relationships
communication
self‑discovery
courtship
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- first dates
- relationship building
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
evaluation
social dynamics
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities do you truly value in a partner?
- How does frequent dating affect emotional intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Casual dating may lead to superficial judgments and commitment avoidance.
