Attachment-abhorrence Quote by Dada Bhagwan
““To have neither the slightest attachment (raag) towards the one who is most obliging nor have the slightest abhorrence (dwesh) towards the one who is most troublesome; such is the conduct as a Vitaraag (One free from attachment and abhorrence) that has to be known.””
About This Quote
Source Teaching: "Vitaraag Philosophy", 1995
One should avoid both extreme attachment and extreme aversion toward any person, maintaining equanimity.
In simple terms: Stay neutral, free from love or hate.
Key Takeaway
Practice balanced detachment.
Themes
spirituality
ethics
psychology
Mood
serene
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
spiritual
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- leadership
- meditation
Key Concepts
Equanimity
non-attachment
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you stay compassionate while remaining unattached?
- When is attachment appropriate?
A Different Perspective
Complete detachment may hinder empathy.
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