God Quote by Dada Bhagwan
““The Lord has said that the relative (vyavahaar) is entirely that which needs to be settled (discharge). Hence, it is not worth holding onto it, it should be settled promptly.””
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Teachings of Dada Bhagwan, 1995
One should promptly resolve disputes rather than cling to them, as holding onto conflict is unproductive.
In simple terms: Resolve conflicts quickly; don't cling to them.
Key Takeaway
Let go of grudges and settle issues.
Themes
conflict resolution
detachment
mindfulness
Mood
calm
insightful
Type
spiritual
practical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- legal negotiations
- team disagreements
- family disputes
Key Concepts
attachment
ethical conduct
inner peace
Questions to Reflect On
- What conflicts are you holding onto?
- How can swift resolution benefit relationships?
A Different Perspective
Some issues require careful deliberation, not haste.
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