Husband Quote by D.H. Lawrence
““And as he went about arranging and as he sat talking there seemed something false about him and out of tune.Watching him unknown she said to herself there was no stability about him. He was when he was in one mood. And now he looked paltry and insignificant. There was nothing stable about him. Her husband had more manly dignity. At any rate he did not waft about with any wind. There was something evanescent about Morel she thought something shifting and false. He would never make sure ground for any woman to stand on. She despised him rather for his shrinking together getting smaller. Her husband at least was manly and when he was beaten gave in. but this other would never own to being beaten. He would shift round and round, get smaller.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Women in Love by D.H. Lawrence, 1920
The passage portrays a man whose lack of consistency and firmness makes him appear insubstantial and unreliable, contrasted with a more solid, traditionally masculine partner.
In simple terms: A man who is unstable and shifting is despised compared to a steady, strong partner.
Key Takeaway
Seek stability and integrity in relationships.
Themes
relationships
masculinity
identity
stability
trust
Mood
conflicted
critical
reflective
Type
literary
psychological
observational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal development
- relationship dynamics
- self‑esteem building
Key Concepts
masculine dignity
insecurity
perceived weakness
gender expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does societal pressure shape our view of masculinity?
- Can fluidity be a strength rather than a flaw?
A Different Perspective
Stability may be a social construct that undervalues fluid identities.
![“I don't like being away from home. That's one reason why I don't work as much as I used to [when I started my career], because so many things are on the road. I just don't want to be away from my husband, my dogs and my home. I don't sing that much any more because that also takes you on the road.” quote by Jane Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/07c/jane-powell-36243_away_i-don-t-like-being-away-from-home-that-s_278.jpg)
