Burden Quote by Criss Jami
““The pain of the narcissist is that, to him, everything is really a threat. What doesn't surrender in reverence is blasphemous to a high opinion of oneself - the burden of self-importance. The narcissist reconstructs his own law of gravity which states that all things and all creatures must adhere to his personal satisfaction, but when they do not, the pain is far more intense than it is for one who is free from the clamors of 'I'.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Dark Side of the Soul by Criss Jami, 2015
Narcissists view any lack of control as a personal attack, causing intense pain when others don’t meet their demands.
In simple terms: Narcissists feel threatened when not obeyed.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and set boundaries with self‑absorbed individuals.
Themes
self‑importance
control
pain
boundaries
Mood
anxious
defensive
reflective
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- relationships
- workplace
- family
- social media
Key Concepts
narcissism
ego
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain self‑worth when faced with narcissistic pressure?
- What strategies help you protect your emotional health?
A Different Perspective
Narcissists may also feel vulnerable, making confrontation risky.
