““Narcissists have difficulty connecting with their observing self and their self-as-context. They are continually running from “bad” conceptualized selves and continually chasing “good” ones. They try to get rid of the bad ones by projecting them onto others. When you find yourself being pulled in one direction or another, try to remember that you transcend any particular label that your mind might assign. You are not good or bad. You are the place where thoughts like good and bad happen. You are the being that gives meaning to ideas like goodness and badness. You are also the being that watches your experiences. You’ve always been there, since the moment that you were born.””