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Apology Quote by Craig Silvey

“Sorry. Sorry means you feel the pulse of other people's pain as well as your own, and saying it means you take a share of it. And so it binds us together, makes us trodden and sodden as one another. Sorry is a lot of things. It's a hole refilled. A debt repaid. Sorry is the wake of misdeed. It's…” quote by Craig Silvey
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““ Sorry. Sorry means you feel the pulse of other people's pain as well as your own, and saying it means you take a share of it. And so it binds us together, makes us trodden and sodden as one another. Sorry is a lot of things. It's a hole refilled. A debt repaid. Sorry is the wake of misdeed. It's the crippling ripple of consequence. Sorry is sadness, just as knowing is sadness. Sorry is sometimes self-pity. But Sorry , really, is not about you. It's theirs to take or leave. Sorry means you leave yourself open, to embrace or to ridicule or to revenge. Sorry is a question that begs forgiveness, because the metronome of a good heart won't settle until things are set right and true. Sorry doesn't take things back, but it pushes things forward. It bridges the gap. Sorry is a sacrament. It's an offering. A gift.””

Craig Silvey

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Book of M by Craig Silvey, 2018

Apology is portrayed as a complex, multifaceted act that acknowledges shared pain, creates connection, and prompts healing, though it can also expose vulnerability.

In simple terms: Sorry connects people through shared pain and healing.

Key Takeaway

Offer sincere apologies to foster empathy.

Themes

empathy forgiveness connection

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • relationship repair
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology ethics social bonding

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is an apology truly effective?
  • How does vulnerability affect forgiveness?
A Different Perspective

Apologies can be insincere or insufficient without change.

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