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Apology Quote by Craig Silvey

“Sorry means you feel the pulse of other people's pain as well as your own, and saying it means you take a share of it. And so it binds us together, makes us trodden and sodden as one another. Sorry is a lot of things. It's a hole refilled. A debt repaid. Sorry is the wake of misdeed. It's the…” quote by Craig Silvey
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“Sorry means you feel the pulse of other people's pain as well as your own, and saying it means you take a share of it. And so it binds us together, makes us trodden and sodden as one another. Sorry is a lot of things. It's a hole refilled. A debt repaid. Sorry is the wake of misdeed. It's the crippling ripple of consequence. Sorry is sadness, just as knowing is sadness. Sorry is sometimes self-pity. But Sorry, really, is not about you. It's theirs to take or leave.”

Craig Silvey

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Book Thief, 2005

Apology acknowledges shared pain, creating empathy and collective responsibility, but must be genuine, not self‑centered.

In simple terms: Sorry connects us through shared hurt.

Key Takeaway

Offer sincere apologies to heal bonds.

Themes

empathy responsibility communication

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • team building
  • family counseling
  • community healing

Key Concepts

moral philosophy psychology of guilt

Questions to Reflect On

  • When does an apology become empty?
  • How can we ensure apologies are authentic?
A Different Perspective

Apologies can be used manipulatively.

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