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“If you devote your life to seeking revenge, first dig two graves.” quote by Confucius
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“If you devote your life to seeking revenge, first dig two graves.”

Confucius

About This Quote

Source Book: Analects, Confucius, 5th century BC

Living a life consumed by revenge harms both the seeker and the target, leading to mutual destruction.

In simple terms: Revenge destroys both parties.

Key Takeaway

Avoid vengeance, seek forgiveness.

Themes

revenge justice selfcontrol

Mood

somber reflective

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • legal disputes
  • conflict resolution
  • family feuds

Key Concepts

Moral philosophy karma ethical consequences

Questions to Reflect On

  • What could you gain by letting go of retaliation?
  • How does forgiveness change personal peace?
A Different Perspective

Revenge may feel justified but often escalates harm.

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