Firsts Quote by Confucius
“If you devote your life to seeking revenge, first dig two graves.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Analects, Confucius, 5th century BC
Living a life consumed by revenge harms both the seeker and the target, leading to mutual destruction.
In simple terms: Revenge destroys both parties.
Avoid vengeance, seek forgiveness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- legal disputes
- conflict resolution
- family feuds
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What could you gain by letting go of retaliation?
- How does forgiveness change personal peace?
Revenge may feel justified but often escalates harm.