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“My true friends always gave me this supreme proof of attachment: a spontaneous aversion to the men I loved.” quote by Colette
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““My true friends always gave me this supreme proof of attachment: a spontaneous aversion to the men I loved.””

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About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Vagabond” by Colette, 1910

True friends show love by naturally avoiding those we love, revealing deeper loyalty.

In simple terms: Friends prove love by not being attached to our loved ones.

Key Takeaway

Notice loyalty in subtle actions.

Themes

friendship loyalty attachment

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • family ties
  • friendship tests
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology of love social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does this aversion reveal about the friend?
  • Can love exist without possessiveness?
A Different Perspective

Such aversion may also signal jealousy or insecurity.

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