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Alive Quote by Christian Wiman

“I don’t believe in “laying to rest” the past. There are wounds we won’t get over. There are things that happen to us that, no matter how hard we try to forget, no matter with what fortitude we face them, what mix of religion and therapy we swallow, what finished and durable forms of art we turn…” quote by Christian Wiman
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“I don’t believe in “laying to rest” the past. There are wounds we won’t get over. There are things that happen to us that, no matter how hard we try to forget, no matter with what fortitude we face them, what mix of religion and therapy we swallow, what finished and durable forms of art we turn them into, are going to go on happening inside of us for as long as our brains are alive.”

Christian Wiman

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Unfinished” in The New Yorker, 2012

Past wounds persist despite attempts to forget; they remain active in our minds, shaping identity and perception.

In simple terms: Past hurts stay with us.

Key Takeaway

Accept and integrate lingering pain.

Themes

memory trauma identity

Mood

somber thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What role does art play in processing trauma?
  • Can we ever fully let go?
A Different Perspective

Some may view acceptance as surrendering progress.

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