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Arms Quote by Charles Bukowski

“I sit on the couch watching her arrange her long red hair before my bedroom mirror. she pulls her hair up and piles it on top of her head- she lets her eyes look at my eyes- then she drops her hair and lets it fall down in front of her face. we go to bed and I hold her speechlessly from the back…” quote by Charles Bukowski
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“I sit on the couch watching her arrange her long red hair before my bedroom mirror. she pulls her hair up and piles it on top of her head- she lets her eyes look at my eyes- then she drops her hair and lets it fall down in front of her face. we go to bed and I hold her speechlessly from the back my arm around her neck I touch her wrists and hands feel up to her elbows no further.”

Charles Bukowski

About This Quote

Source Short story or personal essay, date unknown

An intimate, sensual scene describing a lover’s hair ritual and restrained affection

In simple terms: A tender moment of closeness with boundaries

Key Takeaway

Appreciate subtle intimacy and respect limits

Themes

love intimacy boundaries

Mood

reflective intimate

Type

literary personal

When to use this quote

  • romantic evenings
  • private moments
  • personal reflection
  • artistic writing

Key Concepts

Sensory detail physical connection emotional restraint

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does restraint shape intimacy?
  • What emotions arise from limited physical contact?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize control without consent

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